I've once read the book "Conversations on love" and in one interview the person says (paraphrasing) "When you say you love your partner, my first question will be: How do you show it?"
And I'm an adherent to that, though in my opinion love is also a feeling, it's just that we need action to sustain it.
I'm glad you could find a partner after having been hurt by past crushes, hope the relationship will continue to grow and be strong :)
Thank you, I've grown to be more vulnerable over the year so that's good.
Wish you a great day and thank you for the encouragement!
I've been there. Got hurt by a couple crushes. One I didn't even tell for 2 years. But eventually I came to the conclusion that a true relationship can't lack this sort of basic communication, Anyone I wanted to be with would share the idea that love is an active choice and not a fleeting feeling. And that's when I met my current partner. Once I opened up myself to that idea, that I can choose who I love, I found her hiding in plain sight. I took a leap of faith. And it has brought me so much joy. In the 18 months we've been dating we have learned so much about love together. And all because of a baby step towards honesty. I hope you can find strength in vulnerability, too.
I've once read the book "Conversations on love" and in one interview the person says (paraphrasing) "When you say you love your partner, my first question will be: How do you show it?"
And I'm an adherent to that, though in my opinion love is also a feeling, it's just that we need action to sustain it.
I'm glad you could find a partner after having been hurt by past crushes, hope the relationship will continue to grow and be strong :)
Thank you, I've grown to be more vulnerable over the year so that's good.
Wish you a great day and thank you for the encouragement!
I've been there. Got hurt by a couple crushes. One I didn't even tell for 2 years. But eventually I came to the conclusion that a true relationship can't lack this sort of basic communication, Anyone I wanted to be with would share the idea that love is an active choice and not a fleeting feeling. And that's when I met my current partner. Once I opened up myself to that idea, that I can choose who I love, I found her hiding in plain sight. I took a leap of faith. And it has brought me so much joy. In the 18 months we've been dating we have learned so much about love together. And all because of a baby step towards honesty. I hope you can find strength in vulnerability, too.
Keep writing! I'll be sure to read it.